Monday, March 10, 2025

Living Free as an ESFP-A

I’m an ESFP-A—Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling, Perceiving, with a dash of assertiveness. Also also known as the "Entertainer" or "Performer" in the world of MBTI. I have took this test a few times and I keep getting the same results so must be true right?  

ESFPs are vibrant, energetic individuals who live in the moment and bring enthusiasm to everything they do. Known for their spontaneity, warmth, and ability to connect with others, they thrive in social settings and love creating memorable experiences. The Assertive (-A) variant adds a layer of confidence and resilience, making ESFP-As bold in their pursuit of joy and less likely to be swayed by stress or self-doubt.

Mostly is true but but these days I feel my energy drained out from too much socialising. 

Key Characteristics:

  • Extraverted (E): ESFPs gain energy from interacting with people and their environment. They are outgoing, approachable, and often the life of the party, effortlessly drawing others into their orbit with their charm and enthusiasm.

    I'm not sure if I am the life of the party but definitely approachable!

  • Sensing (S): Grounded in the present, ESFPs are highly attuned to sensory details—sights, sounds, and textures. They prefer tangible experiences over abstract theories and excel at noticing and appreciating the world around them.

    This is very true, I love concerts, musical and anything visually pleasing. I prefer going to a foreign country to trek then shopping in the malls or dining in a fancy restaurant.

  • Feeling (F): Guided by their values and emotions, ESFPs prioritize harmony and empathy. They make decisions based on how they and others feel, striving to create positive, uplifting environments.

    These days as I grow older, I have less empathy and patience with people. Especially at work! But I do strive for a politic free working environment. 

  • Perceiving (P): ESFPs are flexible and spontaneous, preferring to keep their options open rather than adhering to strict plans. They adapt quickly to new situations and embrace change with excitement.

    Yes this is why i cannot work in government sector which has rigid, rule-bound environment. Government roles often involve strict adherence to established protocols, policies, and hierarchical decision-making processes.

  • Assertive (-A): Unlike their Turbulent (-T) counterparts, Assertive ESFPs are self-assured and less prone to second-guessing themselves. They approach challenges with optimism and confidence, trusting their ability to handle whatever comes their way.

    I'm naturally optimistic, especially when my shares drop—I still believe they'll bounce back! 😄 This optimism helps me stay calm, as I see worrying as pointless. I also don't believe in regrets. Every experience is a lesson; you can't change the past, so just learn from it and move forward!


Potential Challenges and How to Leverage Them

Distraction or Lack of Long-Term Focus: ESFPs can sometimes struggle with routine or long-term planning. To counter this, pair your spontaneity with tools like task lists or project management apps to stay organized.

This is true. I struggle with maintaining my enthusiasm with a long-term project.

Over-Optimism: As you noted, your optimism (e.g., expecting shares to rise) can sometimes overlook risks. In your job, balance this by seeking input from analytical colleagues or double-checking data before decisions.

Sure that is why AI Chats are my best friend now.

Emotional Sensitivity: Your feeling nature might make criticism sting. Use your assertiveness to view feedback as a growth opportunity, aligning with your "no regrets, just lessons" mindset.

I am open to this in general. Afterall if I think you are saying rubbish I won't even remember the conversation ;)